T&Cs / FAQs

The must-read before we meet.

Terms & Conditions

RATES

• My rates only covers our time together and are strictly non negotiable
• All other costs (e.g. meals, accommodation, entry fees and tickets) will be covered by you
• Remaining renumeration must be handed over immediately after we greet one another
• Accepted payment methods: cash (preferred) and bank transfers

DEPOSITS

• Once a date and time has been agreed upon, a 20% deposit is required to secure our time together
• An additional $400 is required if you wish for me to settle location logistics
• Accepted payment methods: bank transfers, crypto (USDT), gift cards

BOOKINGS & CANCELLATION

1. Screening is mandatory. To meet, fill in the booking form here.

Repeat bookings can be done by contacting me directly through our medium of communication 🙂

2. Replies are not guaranteed.

Previously, replies were made within 48-72 hours of a form submission. I’ve since realised it’s highly inefficient. Rest assured that I still screen and read every email and form that comes my way! I just unfortunately do not have the bandwidth to put in equal effort and time into all.

A non reply could be due to the following reasons:

- You are within my network or closely related to it
- The form was not filled in properly
- You did not pass my screening
  If you wish to highlight or flag out something I might have overlooked, reach out to me directly at mistressvillanelle@protonmail.com. Abusing the use of this email address will result in being blacklisted.
  
  If, even after the above, I fail to reply, it is likely due to several reasons listed on my FAQs section below.

3. I recommend booking at least 3-4 weeks in advance. Read more about why in my FAQ section.

4. If our time together is under 3 hours, I won’t meet between 10pm – 7am.

If anything transpires between the confirmation of our date and the actual meet that results in me not wanting to meet you, I will cancel our meeting and return the deposit in full. This shouldn’t be an issue if you are courteous and chilvarous in your communication 🙂

CANCELLATIONS & REFUNDS

1. Rescheduling is allowed once, for free.

If you are unsure of when to reschedule, I allow for a 3 month grace period for you to decide
If the rescheduled date is not set within 3 months, the 20% deposit will be forfeited
Every additional reschedule following the first will require an additional 20% deposit

2. Cancelling without rescheduling faces forfeiture of the 20% deposit.

3. The full rate applies if you need to cut our time short, or have a change of mind after we meet.

4. Manners maketh man. Should your behaviour make me feel unsafe – mentally, physically, or emotionally – I will make it clear to you and take my leave. No refund will be provided.

5. In the unlikely event that I need to cancel or postpone our meeting, you will be entitled to a full refund of your deposit.

I postpone, and you are agreeable: no additional deposit required (unlike point 1)
I cancel: full refund of deposit

SAFETY & SECURITY

Hygiene and safety (not just physically but mentally and emotionally) is of utmost importance to me.

What you should do
• State clearly in the booking form if you’ve boundaries or things you’re keen to explore! I cannot guarantee anything but who knows, our interests may align.
• Note my boundaries. I do not explicitly discuss what I’m comfortable with publicly for reasons. If you are specifically interested in something you may share it with me, and I’ll respond if they’re within my boundaries

What you should note
• I prioritise safety and get tested every 3 months on top of keeping myself protected; it’s only right that you do the same
• Dishonesty and lies will result in being blacklisted

Following the above will ensure we make the most of our time together 🙂

ETIQUTTE & BOUNDARIES

I will take my leave if I feel like my safety or privacy is compromised.

This includes

Touching of personal belongings
Repeated questioning when I explicitly state I won’t be uncomfortable answering (don’t be afraid to ask though, just don’t prod if I say I won’t be answering)
Anything I did not consent to
Lack of manners & hygiene

PRIVACY & CONFIDENTIALITY

Rest assured, your personal identifiers are kept private confidential. Likewise, I expect the same for you. Our time together is private and sacred; no photography and videography will be allowed.

If we bump into one another outside of our time together, we should not acknowledge one another or make attempts to.

Any attempt to intrude into my personal life, obtain information I don’t voluntarily provide, or harass me will result in being blacklisted in addition to legal action if necessary. Certain acts are a criminal offence, and it’s in your interest to tread carefully.

Personally, I’d love to meet you for a casual meal to see if we click! If you wish to take things slow, consider booking me the “2 hours – public date” option on my booking form.

REFERENCES

Using Me As Reference:

If you wish to use me as a reference when meeting peers in my industry, you must

1) inform me in advance through our mode of communication
2) have met me in the last 3 months

Failure to do so will result in a non-response.

Providing References:

Providing references assists with the screening process, though it is not a must.

Please ensure that

1) you have informed the provider that you will be using them as reference
2) have checked their T&Cs

Feel free to ask me more questions when filling in the form, I look forward to hearing from you! x

Frequently Asked Questions

About Viv

What are some of your dos and donts?

They’re pretty self explanatory – you can find hints littered on this page and on my T&Cs. You can be the judge of what’s appropriate and what’s not.

DOs:
• generosity
• respect
• hygienic

DONTs:
• discuss anything explicit or invasive
• be crude

If I voice my discomfort or eventually decline to meet, then something was done wrong. It’s not that hard to be a decent human being 🙂

What are some of your hobbies?

Reading, music, and outdoor activities are some things I immerse myself in! Though I often say that I don’t have enough time.

As for the unconventional…meet me to find out more.

How old are you?

Old enough to sing some oldies by heart, young enough to be on Tik Tok. Go figure!

What are some things you'd like to do?

Oh so many! You can find out more on my date ideas page.

There are many others that I’d love to do, but it really depends on our chemistry and personal preferences. Why not meet to see how things go?

on booking viv

How can I meet you?

Fill in the pre-screen form here. If you pass screening, I’ll reach out and we can discuss from there. Do note that submitting a booking form does not guarantee meeting me.

Previously, I stated that submissions will receive a reply within 48-72 hours of submission. This is no longer the case. If you receive no reply within the week, it could be due to any of the following reasons

You are within my network or closely related to it
I do not have time accommodate you in my schedule – this is especially since priority is given to those I’m familiar with
The form was not filled in properly
You did not pass screening

If you think I’m mistaken, reach me through my email as shared on my T&Cs page.

If you’ve met me before – reach me through email or through the various platforms we’ve communicated on.

We've met before, how can we meet again?

Reach out to me directly on whichever platform we’ve been communicating on. Once we’ve met, arranging to meet again will flow much more seamlessly 🙂 If we have not met for several years, I might request for you to resubmit a booking form.

What's your availability like?

With a civie job, standard working hours are usually out of the question, though I occasionally have weekday availabilities. In the event that I do, familiar faces and those who have been screened will be prioritised 🙂

Travelling has become increasingly frequent given my current job. If you’d like, fill in the booking form nonetheless / subscribe to my newsletter to keep updated if I’m ever in your area.

I strictly do not start my meets at midnight (or in the middle of the night) – just as I respect your privacy and discretion, my time should be respected as well.

Any extension of time depends on my schedule on the day and subject to my agreement during our meeting. Each hour of an extended time together will be SGD400/h.

Who do you prioritise to meet?

There’s no fixed method, but generally I will look at those

1) who have passed screening

2) whose schedule aligns with mine

3) who have met me before. Those close to me will know that the more we meet and the closer we get, the more willing I am to move my schedule to make space for our time together.

How do you share your last minute availabilities?

1) I’ll reach out directly – you can indicate your interest with me through my newsletter or through the platform we communicate on

2) Instagram close friends list

3) You can fill in the form and let me know specific dates/times you’d like to be kept up to date about

How far out in advance should I arrange to meet you?

It really depends!

I’d recommend at least 1month in advance, although sometimes 1-2 weeks is possible too. It really depends on my schedule (see the question on availability).

I usually won’t be able to make it if it’s a last mintue plan such as layovers.

Where will we meet?

The location is entirely up to your choice – but please note that I only patronise 4* and 5* locations.

If you wish for me to manage the logistics, an additional $400 will be required in addition to the 20% deposit.